I know what it’s like to love God, love your husband,

and still feel stuck in conflict and distance.

After my first marriage of 27 years ended in divorce,

I began asking God questions I had never asked before:

Lord, what does Your Word say about marriage?

What is Your design? What did I miss?

Years later, God blessed me with an amazing new husband.

But when some of those old patterns of tension and distance began showing up again, I knew I wanted to do things differently.

I wanted peace, laughter, closeness, passion, and friendship.

But I didn’t know HOW.

God began showing me that my purpose wasn’t to change my husband.

It was to look at my own heart and learn how to walk in His design for my marriage.

I began learning how to listen differently, speak differently, open my heart to my husband’s input, and respond differently in those small moments that used to pull us apart.

And over time, the laughter, tenderness, friendship,

and closeness came back. 💛

Today, I help Christian wives learn simple, practical ways to

create more peace and connection in their marriages

by starting with what they CAN change:

their own words, responses, and choices.

and yours.